ENZZZZZZOIIIIIII.....

En iniya puthaandu Nal-Vaazthukkal 2006 :-)

Wishing you and your family a Happy and Prosperous New year 2006 :-)

May all your dreams come true this wonderful year :-))

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Bonus before new year......

My hearty congradulations to the new parents - my dear friend Shakila and her husband Mansur on the birth of their beautiful n lovely daughter today (2.45pm CST)....... "Kondaada oru kuzhanthaiyin" peyar : Santhosham alli tharubaval (Giving Happiness)....
Lucky to be born for you both :-)...

Waiting to seee her.....damn these flight deals :-((

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Girls are always blamed for fighting for equal rights at all places...education , career.....

Now who said guys are not fighting for their rights???? Whoever told "Gossip is the birthright of a girl" should now listen with EARS open......

WEll matter is... GUYS do gossip...and they are worse than girls in that matter.....

Vittaaaaa namma ooorla....irukkara...paatingala thooki saapudura alavukku illa vambukku alaiyaranua....adi athaaadi.....idhenna kootha irukku ;-)

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End of another year....Some of them are working hard as it is the financial close and last week of this year 2005...some of them are chasing rats as their clients are all on vacation.. so they ESC by afternoon to do the cat work ;-)

Lets not go into the stats of the number of crimes reported this year but lets just discuss few tips about being more careful.. esp...for women who travel alone :-)

1. Always carry your cell phone with you. If you are in US, kindly store 911 as speed dial in one another number other than '9'. This way, you might just press some number hard enough that it can directly be connected to 911 and also would not get the attention of your attacker if you dont press the number 9. For those who are in India, kindly store some emergency contact number in ur cell phone (your personal contact) or also 100
2. Whenever you travel alone, let someone know - ur room-mate or friend or relative (parents), when and where you are going and what time you would be back.
3. Even if you are travelling to a new place, familiarize yourself a lil about the possible routes you are going to take and also the nearby locations which might be having some crowd even during the wee hours ( Mapquest or google maps and other Trip planner sites for your State is good enough). This might take some extra minutes but is always wise to do it.
4.Carry "Pepper" spray or chilli powder with you at all times esp when you travel alone ( can throw your make up powders from your kitty bag if you lack space).Knifes and other sharp items may be prohibited due to security issues in some places and is not a good idea to carry them :-)
5. Never encourage a stranger too much. Even if someone would offer rides :-), say NO to them. It is illegal to offer rides to pedastrians in the States. Do not get allured to the extra friendly gestures even from people of either Sex.
6. Do not look scared. Even if you are really scared, dont ever show it on your face. This gives the attacker more courage. The more bold you look, they will think twice...This is not practically possible at all times... but TRY....
7. Never hesitate to report what you see. If you see something or someone disturbing, always try to report it. Do not think it is not your headache. You never know how harmful it might turn out to be cos of your lack of a minute to report :-)

Eppavum...thuru thurunu .... ungala suthi irukkum atmosphereaa observe pannunga...kuninja thalai nimiraama nadakka thevai illai....inga ungaloda adakkamum odukkamum thevai illai...

These are some of the tips I could think of. More suggestions are welcome. Not only girls, guys who travel alone also need to be more careful.

Last but not the least, the new contacts you make always not to be trusted toooooooooooooooo much..(esp in a new place ex. when you move to a new city)... they can turn out to be ass holes. Never discuss too much of your personal life with new anyone unless you know them realllllllly well.... this is specially for all the girls...( avanunga/avaluga vidura kadhai... indha kaathula vaangi andha kaathula joot vidanum....never should reply from your mouth ;-))

PS : my heart-felt condolences to the BPO employee who was murdered in Blore

Ushhhhhhhhaaar agungooooo ponungalaaaaaa.....

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MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL OF YOU OUT THERE !!!

Hope you all got your presents from SANTA :-)

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Election campaign ileeengo...aanaalum neenga vote podanum...

Matter idhu thann.. naan ippo romba irregular agiten.. esp to visit blogs and to post my comment there... aaaaana ivlo velai vetti illadha busyaaaaaaaaana (ammadiyov) schedulayum.. naan sunday sunday.. aavaludan rasikkum oru kolam.. kalai podum KALAI

Kalaikku oru vendukol: Neenga en post panradha nirunthineenganu enakku theriyadhu. Sunday aana mattum unga blog visit seyyum naan nethu edho suddena visit panni shock agiten.
Reasons y i think you shld start bloggin again :
1. I enjoy reading your blog ( selfish yet true)
2. Seriousaaa enna mathiri rambam topic pesaravanga mathila..unga post padicha ... nijama vaay vittu sirikkalam..can see a SOLOMAN pappaiya touch..sirippu kalandha logic
3. NERD score 99 ulla oru ponnu ivlo nalla ezhutharathu makes girls proud :-)
4. You are becoming famous and there is a huge fan for your writing.. I dont see any harm in this......so remem that to satisfy or prove something to someone.. you are hurting so many other people who still want you to blog...

Last but not the least : unless it is your parents or someone you love or someone who loves you is suggesting you to stop blogging.. I dont see this as a good reason for you to pull out your blog posts. I really want you to continue bloggin..and since you have disabled your comments section.. I posted my comment here..

Matha ellarukkum... unga voteaaa namma comment sectionla kuthungayaa......

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I have read a lot of poetry.. which says.. your hours pass on like secs when u do or be with someone you like/love... at the same time... even a sec becomes an eon if you have to wait desperately...

well..today.. i really experienced it... that one minute... 7:59 to 8:00AM was like an EONNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN for me.......

aaaaaamadiyov.....aaala vidu...

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Long week end... phew.. was a nice break for people who work very hard ;-)

Well this world compraises of different types of people......

Marriage..punidhamaana oru uravu..niraya bloggers..indha bandhathukku thayar nilayil irukkum palarum thangaladhu blog site-il oru postaavadhu idhai patri ezhuthirupaanga...(Ippo recently niraiya blog love patri post varudhu...idhai onnaiyavadhu.. vittu vaiganpa..kidaikkum idam ellam josiyakaran poster ottura maathiri.. neengalum.. kidaikum vazhi ellam ungal thunaiya theda aaiyiram vazhi irukku.. indha blog communitiyaiyavadhu ungaloda 1001 vadhu vazhi aakama irundha...nalla dhaaen irukkum.. enna naan sollradhu...).....

Naanum indha topicla blog pannama irundhen..aaana ippo adhil oru pudhu konaithai kanden....

Naan indha country la niraiya vidhaaamana - vinodhamaaana namba oor kaarangala paarthirukken. Inga Indiyargal apdinu illama..aasiyar anaiyvaraiyum namba oor apdinu sollalaam. Ingu palarum thangaladhu kudumbaithai vittutu vandhu thaniyaga irukkiraargal. Ivargalil palar pannathirkaaga mattum inga irukka kattaaya padhutha padhugiraargal. Appadi irukkum pala nalan kallukku ingey dhamayandhigal kidaikaraaanga.
Edheynum onrai edhir paarthu bandham kollum dhamayandhiyai thaan kelvi pattuirukkiren... aaanal...endha vidhamaana edhir paarpum illamaaal thangalai patri yosiyahmal, thangalin bandha ennikaiyai nambikaiyodu kooti kondu udhavum indha manithargilin perunthanmaiyai paaratuvadha?? alladhu... thangaladhu bandhathai vittu thangalai bandhamaaga vitru kollum "agadhi" nilamaiyil ulla nammavarai paarthu vidiyalukkaga ivargal thangalai varuthi-kolgiraarkalay enru manam puzhungvadha???

Enru vidiyum ullgin por nilai... andru thaniyum indha anniya mogam !@$!$!@#$#!@@$#@%#@%@

Ippadiyum....oru "sam"bandhama??? Idhil yaarukku sowgaryam???

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Thanks giving.. well roots back to celebration of immigrants thanking the natives of US of A for helping them to survive in this land. This was believed to have been a feast given by them to the natives. Though modern day Thanks giving dinner has turkey and pumpkin pie ( off-late) as part of their 'mandatory' menu, this was not proven in the past historic records....

well idhellam oru pakkam irukka.... this holiday week end witnesses one of the most nightmarish traffic on the roads esp the evening before thanks giving. Usually, any long week end starts with the heavy traffic with people trying to escape for vacations. This was kind of reduced with 9/11 and people started travelling without fear from last year end (2004).

With the increasing madness..... there have been a drastic number of accidents with this madness...of heavy traffic.

One such accident was witnessed by people in Chicago this wednesday, nov 23, 2005. One of the trains hit the cars in a level crossing. There were a total of 12 cars being hit and the statistics of people injured were not reported properly to the media. The cause of the accident is still not known. How did so many cars get there when they knew that the train is being run on a "scheduled time"??? This is a total mystery. The time table of the trains is followed strictly in this country and it is never altered even by a minute unless abnormal or unavoidable circumstances. I found it too mysterious.

The most surprising part of this was that, this news though it was covered by important channels like CNN was not made a big issue. This NEWS making incident was made a small report by the media. I found it very surprising. What could be the reason??? (1) Was this because this might be considered "inauspicious ??? beginning " for this thanksgiving season ( Thanksgiving is considered the beginning of holidays and celebrations) (2) Was it because they wanted to protect their 'responsible' behaviour??? (3) Was it because they did not want to panic the huge crowd travelling across the country???

If something like this has happened in India, I can imagine the commotion the politicians would have made.. (imagine ... with LALU being the minister of railways....cant stop myself from ROTFL with imagining what his responses would have been )...

well.. all this apart... I was also one of them who had to wait in the train which was delayed for 3+ hours and also saw those cars involved in the accident. From the damage to the cars, am sure any witness could easily imagine the state of the lives involved with the accident.

Along with wishing you all for Thanksgiving....I would like to pray for the recovery of those people.

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My dearest one... my swt lil swtheart... gets to spend the maximum time with me during my youth ;-).... one to get all my attention at anytime of the day....one who stays physically close to me......with my hands over all the time... :-)

do u know how u wud feel when someone as close as above dumps u when u really really really need 'em the mosssttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt.....

well it happened to me yest... for the curious lot... it was none other than my laptop... the OS crashed...how much i hate @$@$#@!... tell me abt it ;-)



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Am i talking about DEO we wear??? ada paavingala... kulikkaama blog padikireengala...

naan aniyum mask (wht others think abt me )...friendly, extrovertish, extremely bold, help@anytime

what am i actually... well...am really comfortable talking to anyone @ any age... but the real me... is a person who can go to party's and hang out only with my known gang, can be my usual notorious and talkative only with my friends... On deep thoughts am I really the extrovertish mask am wearing......dunno (?)

what i think abt myself :
Friendly ....really easy to start talking to and can talk in a variety of topics....this is the best part of the mask which actually adds musk to my heart :-)

Extremely bold : hehehee...i hope my folks r not reading this post....I don't hesitate to take any actions if needed. Im not sure if some people refer to his as foolishly bold... but I have been brought up so independant that i find this as a part and parcel of me...Inwardly am not sure of whether to be happy about this part of me.

Help@anytime : wellllll..u r welcome to knock 24/7 & I wud be available to help anytime....This is something which i like the best about myself... but people who care for me sometimes feel i should Prioritize.....hmmmm.. well i shld remem that the next time i offer to help smone ( am very forgetful...lol)

wht I think about myself is the same as the REAL me......

what i dont like abt the above ME : Being too friendly gets me into trouble @ times,
extemely bold : when others tell me about the possible bad things that could have happened abt the risks i have been taking... i feel am too quick in action and feel stupid sometimes.... and last but not the least 'help@anytime' actually attracts lot of ppl to exploit me...

does everyone like the musky mask am wearing ???? do I really care... am not sure. I do care abt wht ppl I care for think abt me...

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Ennavendru sollavadhu......

How much does the first impression influence a relationship? What if the person you judged by the appearance made you the WORSSSSTTTTT judge on the face of earth????????

Does this happen to all of you out there???

Why do we have to judge someone just by looking at them without giving them the oppurtunity to make us find out what they really are?

This maybe something which can influence a lot of relationships...like friendship @ any place.... relationships with employers/employees.....future TBD relationships....
Have we ever thought about the possible "good" people we might have missed becoz of the above mistake?????

Ada... idhellam idunga pa... naaama ellam indha bloggin panrom.. how many of us.. treat the people V meet daily with the same polite talk u do when u chat with ur fellow blogger??????????

welll.... the reason... for this post is... while travelling.. I was tooo bored....became restless... and ended up looking at people and was wondering what kind of a person each of my co-passengers might be... adhaaan indha vetti post........

On the contrary.. we end up spending valuable time of our lives with people....which we might end up discovering... it was WORTHless....moments in our lives........

wht the hell.."life is to live.. live it to the fullest" :-)

(appaaada mudikka oru line from the head line..hehehehee..).....ungalidam irundhu vidai peruvadhu...

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Deep thoughts reflected in their first production. The story is about the aftermath of 9/11.

The crew is new and a good effort has been made by them. The boom of the IT industry and the numerous oppurtunities during the Y2K period is a known fact. What happened to the immigrants in the US as an aftermath of the 9/11 is the crux of the movie.

The crew is small and the charecters are shown to have come from different family background s with different needs and situations. Typical life of an Immigrant in a shared enviroment with emotions has been well depicted on the screen. It was something that could be well connected-to by immigrant from any country.

If you are looking for commercial aspects, this movie would not be a good choice. Though the movie is in Indian language, the expressive acting of the main role conveys the message to international audience.


Courtesy : Rutgers,NJ (screened on 10/20/05)

Ellarukkum Vanakkam ba ;-)

Konjam Krazy time....

trip with friends, back to hectic work - too much pressure & krazy long hrs..., travelling almost all weekends to friend's place....lazing out during the PRECIOUS sat and returning back on sundays... and then moving to another place.. has been my last one month schedule.....

ippa kooda.. it was the occasion of diwali which forced me to post ;-)

Inspite of all this..... i was still able to chat with a couple of friends ( bloggers) online.

anywayzzzz... for all those who have been wondering abt my hibernation... thought i will post rather than explaining in comment section...

to all my islamic friends out there... belated EID MUBARAK.....

PS: Advanced courtesy to kalai ( for a krazy gal cartoon u r going to do for this post )

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En iniya makkaley,

Iniya deepavali vaazhthukkal!!!!

Happy Diwali to all of you out there!!! May this joyous occasion spread peace and prosperity in all your lives and may the year ahead make all your dreams come true !!!


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romba yosikaren naan.. adhaaan indha time pass post...(Adult content not restricted to just 18 and above)

why do we say "don't create any politics" when we refer to some chaos or confusion..

Y have people made this word sound synonomous to confusion. Is that why it is so tough for many people to understand the politics created by "Mr/Ms. confuscious"'s????? What are the politicians gaining by intimidating 'sensible' people away from their arena? If someone asked me the about the last time I voted, neither am I able to recall the name of the people who stood for the big POSTS like CM/PM nor can I hardly recall the local politician's name for whom I voted for.

Most of them enter politics to find themselves a PROFESSION, some jump in to keep up the Family name...(roobha notela sirikudhu...kudumba peru...lol), some for popularity.......n what the hell.. where are the people who enter politics to SERVE people????

well to be frank, Educated people in India treat the Election date as a "HOLIDAY" and stay back home for all the special news bulletin or the FIRST time telecasted movies, people who are young vote for being the FIRST timer ;-) , people who are old are either helpless to go alone or if they do take their efforts to go and find out after standing in the queue that they have been officially "dead" in the voting list or their GHOST twin has already casted the vote...lol....and the UNEDUCATED lot is exploited for all the cheap alcohols or the WATER carriers of 'SARAVANA'S', last but not the least :NRI... NOT RESPONSIBLE for any politics happ in INDIA

all this should change.. and wht am i doing for this instead of VETTI-ly blogging....hmmm least ppl who read this will think a min or two about it.. that's the effort I could do... and maybe the NRI's would look into their "local" newspapers on the net to confirm their memory on the present CM and PM's names.... (let me do a google before someone asks me in comments section ...:-P)


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For past few days, life has been little busy. I have learnt to smile forgetting all my worries.... realised how much I get to lose simply worrying than trying to straighten things up..

well am in a phase of life.. when I would like to play SHIP-WRECK...and still cant think of any reason to justify my claim on the life boat...lol

Ippo thaan konjam friends gang form aana mathiri irukku...adhukkula i have to leave my current job.... well.. y does this always happen to me?? Losing friends is something not very easy for me... I hate it everytime this happens to me....

It is tough to bug those new friends through phone call or email when you are not very close to them.. at the same time.. u dont want to lose them forever.........

I dont know whether I added this in my TAG 7 but everytime i lose a friend I would like to pray to god... please make my memory RAM.... so that I can start and cont my life afresh without feeling that am missing them....

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Namma thalai porandha naalaikku ... pudhusa.. katchi araambichurukkom.....
DALDA DAPPAS

Vaaanga Vaanga... indha pudhiya rowdy kumballukku unga aaadharavu irukkumnu illaina unga nenjula keera maanja soru veliya therikkum...lol...

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I think the most recent post of Vinesh has caused a wave and Neha has posted a similar post in her blog too...

Instead of expressing my comments about this whole issue, I thought of sharing some thoughts of someone whom I was lucky to meet when I was almost in the beginning of my teen years.

Imagine visiting a relative or friend's place who have kids. What are the possible gift we would buy the kid. If the kid is a girl, we have too many choices for them with exclusive choices of dolls, varieties of dresses, jewellery, props and what not. There is no end to get a gift for a girl. What if the kid is a boy? Even if you list all possible things you could gift the boy, the amount of choices you might end up for a boy can never match the girl's list. The number of choices for gifts for guys is even less as his age becomes higher.

Second most important thing is that, pampering and cuddling given to the girl is more than the exhibit of affection shown towards the boy. This kind of attention is always more for a girl at whichever age she is in. This is also deprived for a boy as he grows. You can never imagine the boy being hugged by the "aunty" who is visiting his place with the boy starting in his teens or later ages. Girls are pampered and given more attention whatever their age might be. Also the only care or pampering or attention or cuddling is given to the boy as he grows is by the MOTHER Of the boy and no one else. FATHERS are usually not into hugging and cuddling or carressing and can't expect them to fulfill the "lack of affection" a BOY kid may miss over his growing years.

This kind of lack of affection makes the guy crave for a girl more than the girl craving for a guy. This kind of craving gets satisfied only when the guy finds his "mother" in another girl.This search of affection mostly gets to their destination at the wonderful bond called marriage. The gentle squeeze of hands, gentle hugs, puppy kisses, snuggling cuddles and big bear cozy hugs which the boy lacks over his growing years makes him give more attention to the "motherly" breasts in the opposite gender. The tendency of getting obsessed with something you are not able to obtain slowly grows in his mind and makes him yearn for it. This naturally makes the guy to pay more attention to something in a girl which he does not possess and which he thinks would make him feel more "loved" and "cared" for( though the boys can have friends of his own gender, the warmth and tenderness of the affection showed by the girl is irreplaceable).

This was the explanation "SHE" gave for guys either craving or more attention to breasts of woman. This explanation though I could not understand much at that age, did seap deep into my heart and made more sense as I grew up and got to know more guys. I would say this is more logical too. The guy who has relatively more women in his life (say sisters added to the default woman in his life ie. mother) would be more dignified when he meets the girls/women in the society at various situations in life. Is this the reason when the girl is getting abused by a guy, the first Q she asks is " are'nt u born with sisters??". Some guys misunderstand this thinking that the girl whom he is teasing is in an urge to meet her future in laws.. lol.. kodumaiyaaaaa ungaloda...

How can we change this? Well that is something to be pondered about. The way we bring up kids plays a vital role. If this is done properly, the kid will never get spoilt even when his friends are rogues who commit sexual harrassments.

Nature has differentiated men and women for its own cause. We can't redefine nature but we can reform ourselves and make this beatiful world a more loving place to enjoy every moment in life...

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En priyamanavaley... Nee pallaandu vaazha en vaazhthukkal...

"onru mudhal padhimoonru varai unnudan kazhitha naatkal anaithum inimai..
eppodu ninaithu paarthalum naam seidha kurumbugal anaithum pudumai..."

THis post is dedicated to my best friend in life. The last time I saw her must have been almost 4 or 5 yrs ago. Circumstances and ego problems of elders were causes that prevented us from keeping in touch. When I met her last she took me by surprise saying that she always remembers how everyday she used to be scared to enter her kitchen when she is alone at home and how she used to eat as soon as I went home.I also told her that I used to remem her bday but never bothered to wish for which she felt bad that I didn't. Though she is younger to me by six months, I have always been her baby-sitter...lol...... The day she told me this, I cried that night all alone and felt I really missed her.

Sept 16 is her bday and it has always been great with all the bday parties and celebrations in her house. I used to feel she was damn lucky to have such wonderful cake parties for all her bdays. SHe is indeed a friend for life and a wonderfully sweet thing happened to me in my life, someone who shared the BEST days of my childhood.

Little will she knw that the anonymous caller who wishes her every year on her bday was me :-) [called your home number during the last one hr of this wonderful day and was disappointed that no one picked the call]

My dear sweet heart... WIsh you many many more happy returns of this wonderful day. May that LORD bless you with whatever you wish for in your life.



Take care and I really miss you..

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